What is a parenting plan?
When parties separate, it is a good idea to have arrangements in place for both parties to spend time with the children. How you document these arrangements can take place several ways, such as formal Orders or a less formal parenting plan.
Parenting plans are commonly prepared following a mediation with an accredited mediator. Mediators help parties assess their situation and make decisions based on the children and their needs.
Parenting plans are flexible and, if parties agree, can be changed regularly. There is no specific format for a parenting plan, they can be as simple or detailed as the parents want. Generally, they would cover aspects such as: -
Where children will live and how much time they are to spend with the other parent.
If they will spend regular time with grandparents or other family members and when that time will occur.
What arrangements are to be made for special days like birthdays, holidays, Father’s Day, and Mother’s Day.
How the parents are to discuss important decisions about the children such as schooling or medical appointments.
How the parents want to communicate. A parenting plan may specify that parents want to discuss issues by phone email, letter or a family communication app.
If you need to change arrangements, how you notify the other parent
They can also cover aspects of care that would not normally be covered in a Court Order, such as what time children are to go to bed, dietary requirements or a homework schedule. Having these matters covered in a parenting plan helps encourage a consistent routine for children.
Whilst the parenting plan is less expensive than going to Court, they are not legally binding documents. A parenting plan may be used as evidence of arrangements, but the Court cannot enforce them as they could a Court Order.
A parenting plan can also be made into Consent Orders. Consent Orders gives parties the additional benefit of having legally enforceable Orders that can be relied upon.
Please note: the information in this article is general in nature and is not legal advice. For specific advice about your circumstances, contact us to make an appointment with one of our solicitors.
